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性爱频率公式
发布时间:2010-11-4 7:43:35         发布会员: admin    (专家会员)

 

性爱频率公式

揭秘性爱频率公式

  在“性小康”、“性商”等新词汇广为人知之后,国人闻所未闻的“性频率公式”在首届国际性医学国际论坛上登场了——“性爱频率=年龄的首位数×9,该公式适用于20岁以上的人”。阐述这一公式的是中国性学会理事长徐天民教授。

       例如一个在二十年龄段(20岁至29岁)的人,他(她)的性爱公式为2×9=18,18可以看成是10和8的组合,也就是说适合他(她)的性爱频率为10 天内过8次性生活;一个在三十年龄段(30岁至39岁)的人,他(她)的性爱公式为3×9=27,即他(她)适合在20天内过7次性生活。

  性爱频率是以“合拍”为最佳的。就像吃饭一样,并不是吃的越辣越好,或者吃的越不辣越好,而是夫妻俩的口味越相近越好。

  如果情侣之间的性欲非常合拍,双方都能够恰到好处的满足对方的需要,这是最好的组合。如果一方的要求过高,使得另一方感到筋疲力竭而压力重重,或者一方的 欲望过于低下,使得另一方总是得不到满足,都是不匹配的。只有当双方的频率较为一致,而每一次性爱的质量都相对较高时,才最有利于双方情感的增长。人和人 并不相同,在性爱方面的频率受生理、心理、环境、压力、时间等多方面的影响,如果一味地只拿性爱频率来衡量两人的感情,显然是片面的。

  性爱频率只是在一定程度上揭示了双方的性需求,而并非标志着高水平的爱情。换个角度来看,如果对方愿意配合你的性爱频率,也许更能反应他对你的爱恋。

  另外,性爱是爱情的三要素之一(另外两要素为依恋、关怀与奉献),但是爱情当中的性爱不像我们想象的那样简单,它有别于“一夜情”式的性爱。相爱的两个人 的性爱,不是单纯的为了释放性欲,而更多的是对对方高度依恋的一种表达方式。就像我们小的时候依恋母亲,所以总是想和母亲亲昵一样,对爱人的依恋,也导致 了我们与他们亲昵的欲望(当然并不是说我们对母亲是一种男女之间的“爱情”,只是说明对母亲与爱人亲密的需要都是来源于高度依恋)。

  所以对于恋爱中的男女来讲,牵手,挽手臂,拥抱,亲吻都是一种亲密,都是对对方高度依恋的表现,都是爱的表达。如果一位男子愿意与你频繁的发生性爱关系,却不愿意在平日里牵你的手,吻你的额头,或在你入睡前揽你入怀,那么难说他有多么爱你。

  所以,恋爱中的男女应该走出误区,不要一味地用性爱频率来衡量对方的爱意。令双方适应且满意的频率,以及对方对自己的依恋程度,才是衡量爱情的关键指标。(他健她康网 )

 
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